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Barbara posted a condolence
Friday, June 6, 2008
Gary fixed my favorite pair of cowboy boots. We had nice conversations about life -- how good it was to grow up in the time we did. He made my boots brand-new, I'll never get rid of them and will always remember what a nice man he was. Thank you !! Barbara
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Janice Davis Miller posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
I have known Gary since he was born and although I have not seen him in many years, I have been informed by his loving sister, Sandy, of his life, his goodness, his spirituality and his brave heart. My thoughts and prayers go out to his wonderful family with love. Janice
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Sandy Marinko posted a condolence
Sunday, May 18, 2008
I want to thank everyone who came to Gary's funeral and to my home after. The service and meeting before were wonderful tributes to Gary and how he has devoted his life to helping others. To the people who brought food, a A VERY SPECIAL THANK YOU. We would send you a thank you card, however we don't have a way of knowing which of you brought what. Please accept out gratitude. We are most appreciative. Sandy Marinko
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Brigitte posted a condolence
Saturday, May 17, 2008
Lys,I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. I know he is at peace with the many angels. I am here for you always. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Mike & Kathy Lawrence posted a condolence
Friday, May 16, 2008
Gary was one of the most humble men I've ever known. He ALWAYS took time for a joke to put a smile on someone's face. Even when he was in pain, Gary always placed the needs of others before his own. He truly LIVED the principles that were passed on to him, and passed those same values onto others EVERY chance he got. Gary, I will always remember the day we met in "those rooms" that would soon change our lives almost 14 years ago. I will never forget us walking "shoulder to shoulder" in those early days, and in retrospect watching The One Who Has All Power soften both of our hearts and strengthen our spirits. You will surely be missed, but your spirit lives on through the MANY lives you've touched along the way... I am one of those you've touched. Keep the coffee brewing, Brother! Love, Mike & Kathy Lawrence
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Harvey Resnick posted a condolence
Friday, May 16, 2008
I grew up in Englishtown, and was close to the Ruda family. Gary was much younger the me, but I remember Gary as a young man. I didn't know him as an adult, but I know that He came from a Good and Loving family. The Ruda's were almost like family to us when we were growing up. Englishtown was a smally town and we were all close to each other. Love and Sympathy to the family. Harvey and Joan Resnick.
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Jill Ruda Lance posted a condolence
Friday, May 16, 2008
What a wonderful tribute to my cousin Gary. To have so many people leave such loving thoughts and memories for all to share. I am especially grateful to Stacey who mentioned Gary's comeback line when asked how he was feeling. I couldn't help but smile through the tears at the thought of it. It was so Gary. Of course my heart hurts for my Aunt Vivian, my cousins, and their respective children. Alissa, I know I'm not telling you anything new when I say how much your father adored you. I'm sorry for your loss. Also, to all of Gary's friends who were an integral part of his life. There is now a void where an incredible shining light once was. Gary's gone, but he left a piece of his soul with each of you so that his light would shine forever. I'll miss him.
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Lisa Cholette posted a condolence
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Lys, Sorry to hear about your dad, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you need anything, even just an ear, give me a call
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Peter T. McDermott posted a condolence
Thursday, May 15, 2008
I had the privilege to know Gary at first through business I conducted with him, and later through his work with other people. I was always so impressed and inspired by his attitude in the face of his personal hardships. He gave me hope where I had thought it lost forever. He was a man's man, and yet a gentle spirit who always persevered. He is a personal hero and I will always rememeber the kindness and patience he taught me by example. A man to always feel grateful to be around. I will never forget him. God bless him and keep him as I remember him, a man I will always try to live up to. Until we meet again amigo.
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Marty posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
My friend Gary died Sunday morning. I'm feeling very sad today. I met Gary about 13 years ago. I asked him to be my sponsor because I wanted what he had. He was a wonderful spiritual man. He was always smiling or telling a joke. He had a great sense of what life was all about. Helping people. He was my brother and my friend. He guided me through the last 13 years of my life and the only thing he asked of me was that I helped others. I know God keeps us sober, but Gary was a very willing channel for God to work through. Gary's legacy will carry on forever because his words and actions will be remembered by hundreds of people who knew him. It was a privilege to be a part of Gary's life and I will always love him. To Lys, Don and the Kids I'm sorry, and I love you guys.
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stacey diamond posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Gary's spirit will surely live on in the many lives he has touched and forever changed. His physical presence will be painfully missed, but his laughter, humility and wisdom will continue to bring a smile to those who he loved and who loved him dearly. Gary truly "got it" and lived his life sharing "it" with everyone he came in contact with. He taught me about a "loving God" and through his actions showed us all how to live a life that is happy joyous and FREE. We are all blessed to have had a chance to love and know Gary and I'm grateful for those memories that will forever live in my heart and soul. And I will always laugh out loud when I remember the hundreds of times I asked Gary "How do you feel today?" and his serious response was always "THE SAME WAY I DID YESTERDAY, WITH MY HANDS!" With love and warm regards in this time of loss, Stacey
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Lisa Boan posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Gary, 4 years ago, you entered my life, "Welcome,smile and keep coming back your in the right place.", are the words you said to me. Then I really got to know you and when you saw me you would say, "Hi Cutie" followed by one of your warm, loving hugs that some how always made me feel I was going to be okay. You have taken the time for me when I needed it, for that I will always be grateful. You will always be in my heart and my memories. I am very honored to have been a part of your life and you a part of mine. I, as many of us, will carry your strong message of inspiration and hope to many others. You are a true angel, a guardian angel to me. You will be missed a great deal but never forgotten!! Love and Gratitude Always, Lisa
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Mikki posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
We love you Lys. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
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Bianca Vacca posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Gary was such a pillar of strength to so many. His selfless deeds were never ending. He brightened my day with his kind words and his wonderful HUGS. I am so going to miss You Gary. With a laugh and a tear I do not say goodbye, for you have not left us, you will always be in our hearts
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Louis N. Bailey and Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
El Maley Rachamim God full of mercy who dwells on high Grant perfect rest on the wings of Your Divine Presence In the lofty heights of the holy and pure who shine as the brightness of the heavens to the soul of Gary J. Ruda. Who has gone to his eternal rest as all his family and friends pray for the elevation of his soul. His resting place shall be in the Garden of Eden. Therefore, the Master of mercy will care for him under the protection of His wings for all time And bind his soul in the bond of everlasting life. God is his inheritance and he will rest in peace and let us say Amen. El maley rachamim shochen bam'romim hamtzey menuchah nechonah al kanfey haschechinah bema'alot kedoshim ute'horim kezohar harakia me'irim umazhirim lenishmat shehalach le'olamo ba'avur shekol beney hamishpachah, yedidim umakirim mitpalelim le'iluy nishmato began eden tehey menuchato lachen ba'al harachamim yastireyhu beseter kenafav le'olamim veyitzror bitzror hachayim et nismato Adonai hu nachalato Veyanuach beshalom al mishkavo Venomar amen.
