Obituary of Thomas J. McMahon

Tom's Obituary and Monmouth County Library Interview Thomas J. McMahon, 84, of Freehold passed away on Wednesday, July 7, 2020 at Jersey Shore University Medical Center, Neptune Township. He was born and raised in Freehold. Before serving in the U.S. Army for two years he was employed at the former A&M Karagheusian Rug Mill, Freehold. After his military service he followed in his father’s footsteps as a salesman at The Fair, a men’s clothing store in Eatontown. He opened his own store in 1971 in Colts Neck. T.J. McMahon’s, Men’s Clothing Store operated for over 40 years until he retired in 2012. He was a lifelong parishioner of St. Rose of Lima Church, Freehold where he served as an usher and was a member of Msgr. Kivelitz General Assembly, 4th Degree Knights of Columbus, and served as Past Grand Knight of Freehold Council No. 1672. He was a fun loving, positive, kind and caring man with a heart of gold. Always the optimist. His motto was “don’t worry, it’ll all work out”. He loved socializing with family and friends, people watching and trips to Atlantic City. He always had a warm, gentle smile wherever he went. His greatest joy was his family. His greatest love was his wife, Louise of 62 years. They were Freehold High School sweethearts. He was predeceased by his granddaughter, Lindsey Reyelt; a brother, James McMahon, three sisters, Ann Cagney and her husband, Larry; Mary LaMura and her husband, Frank; Kathleen Abbatiello and her husband, Anthony and brother-in-law, Robert Rabe. Surviving are his loving wife, Louise; his children, Sandy Lewis and her husband, Keith of Freehold Township; Kevin McMahon and his wife, Bonnie of Freehold Township; Mary Mauro and her husband, Michael of Lincroft; Maureen Reyelt and her husband, Kenneth of Apopka, FL; and Karen Murphy and her husband, James of Annandale; sisters Margaret Rabe of Freehold, Elizabeth Arcoleo and her husband, Joseph of Freehold; and “sister-in-law” Gloria Hassett of Whiting. He and his wife lovingly raised his brother’s daughters, Marion Kane (husband, COL. (RET) Edward M. Kane) and Sharon McMahon who died in 2018. Also surviving are his grandchildren, Brian Lewis, Connor Lewis, Katelyne McMahon and her fiancé Matthew Lehrer, Matthew Mauro, Christine Mauro, Daniel Mauro, Courtney Reyelt, Morgan Murphy, LTC Christopher R Kane and his wife Emily, MAJ Nicholas J Kane and his wife Catherine, LTC Erica L Kane, Jonathan Gillespie and his wife Dena, and Jason Gillespie and fiancée Krystle; and many nieces, nephews and great grandchildren. Visitation was held at the Higgins Memorial Home, 20 Center Street, Freehold on Thursday, July 9th from 4 to 7 p.m. Due to restrictions at the cemetery, a private family service will be held at Brigadier General William C. Doyle Veteran’s Memorial Cemetery, Arneytown. Memorial donations to Howell First Aid Squad (www.htfars.org) or Freehold First Aid and Emergency Squad, 18 Spring Street, Freehold, NJ 07728 would be appreciated. Interview with Thomas J. McMahon Remembering The 20th Century: An Oral History of Monmouth County Date of Interview: July 18, 1999 Premises of Interview: Mr. McMahon's home, Freehold, NJ Name of Interviewer: Emily Bershad Birthdate of subject: December 19, 1935 Ms. Bershad: Tell me a little bit about Monmouth County and specifically Freehold, where you were born. Mr. McMahon: I was born in Freehold on December 19, 1935, and here is where I have spent my entire life. I remember Freehold fondly from my youth. It was just a wonderful place to grow up and to see the changes in the world. I particularly remember when I was young and how it has changed since, as far as the population has grown. What was farm land and meadows has now become somewhat less, more for the residence, and the area has grown dramatically. When I was a youngster, it was nice to go to farm my grandfather's farm. He used to grow asparagus, potatoes, and corn. He would take all his fruits and vegetables into the Borough of Freehold, behind the American Hotel to the market yard. That is where he, along with his fellow farmers, used to bring their produce to sell them off the wagons. There were, of course, no shopping malls around. There was just a restaurant here and a restaurant there. One was called Van's, and from what I understand, it was a speakeasy during the 1920s. It was owned by my sister-in-law’s family. I remember Freehold being a small town that everyone took a great deal of pride in because it was the county seat. We had two theatres. One was the Strand Theatre, and the other was the Liberty Theatre; both were on Main Street. When they began, there were no talking movies. They had an orchestra setup in the Strand Theatre and they had vaudeville acts. When the talkies finally came into play, it was wonderful to see real movies because it only cost you a quarter to do so. What else can I remember? Well, as I said, I was born in 1935. I was born in the town of Freehold in the hospital, which is presently an attorney’s office, adjacent to the Freehold Savings and Loan. That was the Hospital of Freehold. Ms. Bershad: Was it called the Freehold Hospital? Mr. McMahon: I believe it was. Ms. Bershad: So you had an orchestra in every theatre. Tell us about the speakeasy. James McMahon, Thomas McMahon's father (right) and other relatives Mr. McMahon: That was Van's. Ms. Bershad: Was it the same location as it is now? Mr. McMahon: Yes, it is on Route 79 in Freehold. When you come right down to it, there was only the Colts Neck Inn, as my memory serves me, Van's, and the American Hotel. There were obviously no fast food places. So the times really have changed dramatically over my lifetime here in Monmouth County. My father had a store in Freehold, a men’s clothing store, James A. McMahon’s Men's Clothier. There was a place called Sid Strykers as well. Ms. Bershad: Where about was that? Mr. McMahon: It was right on Main Street, and I remember that during and after the Second World War, it was tough times for a lot of merchants because of the need for the cloth for the soldiers. The men's wear industry and the women’s wear industry were unable to get much in the way of materials for the clothing, because they were all going to the war effort. Thinking of this, the Second World War was a big thing in the theatres. They had the war bonds sold and everybody was seeing the patriotic movies at the time. I also remember air raid tests in school, having to go under the desks for safety. At home we had to close the curtains and turn off the lights when a siren blew. It was scary for young children. Thomas McMahon in a school picture from St. Rose of Lima School in Freehold Ms. Bershad: Were the schools the same as they are today? Mr. McMahon: No. Ms. Bershad: Vocation wise? Mr. McMahon: Yes and no. Saint Rose is where I graduated from, but it was a different school then. A new school has been put up, I guess probably thirty years ago. The old building was a small brick one with many outside steps. It was torn down and now there's a parking lot on McLean Street opposite the church. Ms. Bershad: Is the high school in the same location? Mr. McMahon: Yes, the high school is the same location. We only had one high school at the time, and that was on Route 79. Matter of fact, my grandfather’s farm was about a mile and a half away, and in those days, there were no houses, just my grandfather’s farmhouse. You could see the high school just looking to the right from his porch. Part of my youth was spent on his porch looking at the surroundings and the countryside that was absolutely gorgeous. Ms. Bershad: You were watching the world go by. Mr. McMahon: Watching the world go by, and it went by very slowly. Ms. Bershad: Did you walk to school? Mr. McMahon: Yes, we walked to school almost always. There were no buses, except for the students from other towns. Pretty much everybody walked to school, living in the Boro. Ms. Bershad: I understand that many of the streets in Freehold Borough and also the general Freehold area, which is now Freehold Township, were named after residents. Mr. McMahon: That’s true, as a matter of fact, one is named Terence Terrace, after my cousin. There is a Ryan Boulevard, which was my grandfather’s name. My grandmother’s maiden name was Cannon, and there is a Cannon Road. All are in Freehold Township. Another thing that is coming to my mind is the Freehold Racetrack. I remember in my youth going to the Freehold Raceway often, and it was quite exciting to see the horses. My sister-in-law Jean Cartwright was a marshal there. She would lead the horses out, and she rode a beautiful horse. My sister-in-law was a pretty girl, and she was written up in The New York Times at one time showing pictures of her doing just that: leading the horses out. It was exciting for the family to see her in The New York Times. They eventually changed that to a machine to start the races. Seems like a lot of people from the Freehold area worked at the racetrack and many fond memories were started there. My father was in business for twenty-seven years. He started in 1922, and he retired in 1950. Now I also have a men’s clothing store, presently in Little Silver, NJ, and I have been in business for twenty-eight years. So I did take some inspiration from my father, which I am very happy and very proud of. My father also had a cigar store in Freehold, next to what is now Sweet Lew's Cafe. Ms. Bershad: Sweet Lew's is a restaurant? Mr. McMahon: Yes, it is a luncheonette, and it is owned by my son-in-law and my daughter, Keith Lewis and Sandy Lewis. The food there is wonderful! Ms. Bershad: I certainly believe that, I have been there. What would you say is your sharpest memory as far as Freehold is concerned? Is there one thing that stands out in your mind when you think back to when you were young, any event, or something special? Mr. McMahon: Well, there was a fire in Freehold that destroyed the Strand Theatre. And I happened to be in town at the time, and it took a number of buildings along with it. It was one of the biggest fires that Freehold had in my lifetime, and they never rebuilt the theatre after that. That was next to the county building on Main Street. Ms. Bershad: The Hall of Records? Mr. McMahon: The Hall of Records, yes, right next to that. It took the bakery, a shoe store, I believe, and two or three other stores. It took a good bit of the block on Main Street. Ms. Bershad: And when was this approximately? Mr. McMahon: In the late 1950s. Ms. Bershad: Well, that was very interesting. Thank you so much for sharing your memories. Flora T. Higgins, Project Coordinator Monmouth County Library System © 2001 Last Revision Thursday, July 19, 2001